When it comes to the discussion of infidelity, we have a habit of rushing to conclude who’s the victim and who’s the perpetrator. We’re quick to shame the one who’s strayed and pity the one who was last betrayed. Where does this lead? To the all too familiar and over-played blame-game. The game of ego-driven judgement, division and ultimately no understanding of the one ideal that’s most highly regarded by marriage and yet is the most commonly broken – monogamy.